The human race is bound to feel pains; over the centuries we cry, we suffer in one way or the other, we feel depressed, we desire for roads without crooked paths, but it’s never so we are just always pained, because pain is inevitable to the human race.
The question here is when you feel pains or when you’re in times of pain what are your actions?, Do you move on?, Deny yourself? Blame God?, Become a monster (become harsh)?, Hate your life?, Your living?, Or what do you do?….
Literally, pain is an emotional, mental and physical suffering, it can come in any form and when it comes your behavior towards it determines the aftermath of the pain.
According to me, pain is an acceleration that drives your fate and gives you the opportunity to choose between destinies.
How does this definition work?, Let me give an instance: When you have an injury, you feel pain but when you hide that injury, your pain doubles and when it finally heals on it own it leaves a permanent scar and “a scar is the greatest memory of an injury or pain you had”.
Let me explain this example in correlation to the definition above: When you have an injury, you are already in the first path of fate, immediately you feel pain you are accelerated by that pain to choose between alternatives (whether to continue in your first path of fate or create a second by telling it to someone who can make you feel less pain). When the injury heals on it’s own take note it leaves a permanent scar, that is when you become dejected, abuse God, become a monster, or you hate your living, but if the opposite has been the case, that is if you had told someone who can treat it, the injury would have left a temporary scar that you can call a beauty. Now many would say I can heal my injuries myself, but I would like you to answer this question: can you heal your mental and emotional injuries yourself? Because these are the injuries we are most likely to have and when you try to heal them yourself or you think they’ll heal off, you hurt yourself than before.
What to do when you undergo pain
Following the same definition of pain I gave, pain as the acceleration that drives your fate and gives you the opportunity to choose between destinies. The steps or actions to take when you undergo pains are:
1. Accept and submit to the fact that you are feeling pain anytime it comes,in whatever form it takes. Don’t decieve yourself. (This is accepting that pain is an acceleration)
2. Allowing yourself to be influenced whether positively or negatively. (This is the point where you choose between destines)
Other steps include:
3. Know that you are never alone, and run for help, especially when you feel emotional pain.
4. Seek advice from friends and families you trust, talk to them about what you are passing through and gather facts together.
5. Lastly, sit up yourself and think hard on the path you want to follow from your pains yourself, think on the advice you’ve received from People, choose what will be best by having a foresight. It depends on what you yourself choose.
In conclusion, pain is felt by all mortal being on Earth and when this happen to you never see yourself out of the picture or stoop low to do the worse rather, gather yourself together, trust in God, trust in yourself, run for help, don’t hide yourself and think on advices you’ve gotten from friends and families.
Make sure to share this piece as it might help a pained mind.
Enlightenment 
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